Me and my husband have been married for 6 years. We are both very faithful and never cheated. We both had multiple sex partners before marriage. His ex wife had herpes and he said he hadn't did anything with her Even right before she started showing symptoms because they were having issues at that time because she was cheating. They both found out she had it and so they broke up bc she got it from cheating. and he did get tested before we married but little did I know that it should have been blood and not physical. So he never got a blood test. Bc just like everyone else we believed that you would get it right away.
Anyway moving forward, we have been married for going on 6 years and have children. And guess who just got a break out! Me! I am in so much pain . I went to the doctor and they said it looks like it and I'm getting tested. but not only did I break out on vagina but I also have a sore on my lip (we have oral sex) but more closer to the inside and you can't really tell. I started to break out two days after we had sex . My husband had also got tested two days ago and we are waiting for the results . He has never never never had a break out . EVER.
I know he hasn't cheated . Trust me.
Is it possible that if I have it then he most likely also has it and it's just been dormanted for years?
After 6 years of marriage. Neither of us having other sex partners for about 7-8 years , I break out and he never did. And he swears by it. My husband is a very truthful man. Even tells the truth when he did something wrong.
I just wanna know is it possible that he would have it too. I'm scared that the test will come back negative (I know that sounds horrible), I just don't want our family to be torn apart. Bc if he is negative I wouldn't want him to risk getting it. And think we probably should divorce. We already have issues we are working on. This would just be an icing on the cake if I was the only one positive.