Hi Light1,
I opted for the HIFU procedure for several reasons. First, HIFU has been performed (and improved upon) for over 12 years in many countries (but not the USA) so it's not completely new and has some history on the results. Second, I am not a big fan of any type of radiation therapy (unless the cancer has metastasized) because eventually (5 to 10 years) you end up with the same ED sexual side effects as a prostatectomy and they are not reversable. You can also end up with bladder issues and/or bowel issues. My cancer was isolated to the prostate, Gleason 6 in one area and precancerous in a second area. With the exception of the location (which made it more likely to metastasize) I would have been a good candidate for active surveillance. If the results had shown the cancer to have metastasized, then Proton therapy (radiation) would have been my first choice if I could afford it.
Having read all the possible side effects of a prostatectomy (incontinence, ED, shorter penis) I also wanted to avoid that procedure as well.
I had no cancer symptoms (such as prostate pain or lower back pain) just symptoms of a large prostate. So I did a PSA and DRE. The DRE indicated a large prostate but no abnormal areas. The PSA came back at 18.5.
So here is why is am so strong on getting more than one opinion...
Inspite of my high PSA score, my first urologist said he did not think I had cancer and the high score was simply due to having a large prostate. His recommendation was to do Greenlight laser and I would be "peeing like a teenager again". (He neglected to tell me that Greenlight laser causes retro-ejaculation). I felt pretty good leaving his office thinking I didn't have cancer. He scheduled me for a cystoscopy and it confirmed I have a large median lobe which was causing the urinary issues and he wanted to schedule me for the Greenlight laser. Well, between the time I left his office from the initial consultation and having the cystoscopy I researched the Greenlight laser and side effects. I wasn't to keen on having retro-ejaculation the rest of my life and the high PSA score was still nagging at me inspite of my urologists "professional opinion".
So, I went to a second urologist. He said I should do the TURP to take care of the urinary issues and not the Greenlight because it could cause damage to my bladder. When I raised my concern about the high PSA score, he immediately said you can't tell much from a cystoscopy and he wanted me to schedule for a biopsy. I agreed to the biopsy but only if an MRI showed areas of concern and the biopsy must be targeted. The MRI showed 4 areas of concern. The targeted biopsy showed one area of cancer and one area precancerous.
So, had I followed the advice of the first urologist, I would be peeing like a teenager but still have cancer growing in me and possibly metastasizing! That's why I am so adamant about getting more than one opinion.
In my consultation with the second urologist (after the biopsy) he told me rather coldly that I have cancer and his recommendation was a prostatectomy. He made it sound routine and that he had done lots of them and at my age my recovery should be pretty easy. Well what he didn't know was I has called the hospital and had already gotten my results and knew I had cancer. I had done my research before my consultation. I asked him about the side effects and he (only then) admitted that I would have some incontinence issues "for a while" and that I would be impotent for 6 months to two years. At the time, I didn't know about it causing a shorter penis (and funny thing...he didn't mention it).
I asked him about checking to make sure the cancer had not spread before we did a prostatectomy he then offered to schedule a bone scan. So I'm thinking to myself...why did I have to bring that up? Why didn't he suggest we make sure it has not metastasized? Isn't he supposed to be the professional and be looking out for me?
That's why I'm so adamant about being your own best advocate.
Lastly, trying to avoid radiation and a prostatectomy I ask him about focal laser ablation (FLA) or as a last resort, Proton therapy. He said my prostate was too large and I wouldn't qualify. His exact words were "A prostatectomy is really your only option". Turns out, I did qualify for both the Proton therapy or FLA or HIFU.
That's why I'm so adamant about only letting the doctor who does the procedure tell you if you do or don't qualify.
I hope my story helps others to understand how important it is to be strong for yourself, and to question everything and everyone (even the "professionals"
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