Hello there , I’m female and have had HSV2 for almost 15 years .. first year or so I had maybe 2-3 outbreaks and then Maybe 1 per years after that I was with my ex partner for 10 years and as far as I’m aware I didn’t pass it on to him . Now I know this is a massive mistake but a few weeks ago I had unprotected sex with a male and didn’t inform him of my diagnosis .. it was a drunken one night thing which Iv never done in my life and don’t plan on doing ever again 
.. I had no symptoms before but two days after I developed two large lumps one on my pubic area and one to the left side of my vagina .. they were large about a pea sized not particularly painful , I could sort of grip the lump between my fingers .. iv never experienced this with a herpes outbreak normally I get one sore in the same spot every time and tingling / pain in my left buttock and groin, had no other symptoms at all , the lumps disappeared about 3/4 days later and nothing else came afterwards ..
I’m beside my self with fear that Iv passed it on to this guy ..
Has anyone else had these large lumps under the skin ( no head or sore / relatively painless ) with a herpes outbreak ?