I’m lost, everyone else around me seems so happy and I’m stuck, stuck being me in a world that hates me. I try too hard to be someone I’m not. I go out to make friends and everyone just hates me, I drink too much and I wind up making an absolute fool of myself. I can’t sleep properly my mind is spinning, it would probably be better for anyone around me If this troubled mess of a person is gone. All I’m doing is worrying and I can’t bear it anymore. I try to be nice and I just come across as a fool,an embarrassment
Hey dont worry. Tell me brother what is your age and what do you do to spend your life. Be possitive you are not alone i m with you. You will enjoy life no one hates you.
Sorry to hear that you are feeling that way.. When we feel poorly about ourselves, others can sense that and react to it. They react to what you are showing them. It’s important to build up self-esteem and confidence because that shows that you care about yourself. This is often difficult to do alone. I highly suggest you speak with a counselor who specializes in anxiety and self-esteem issues. They see this every single day and know how to help. It really helps to talk to somebody else in person. They can give you ideas that you haven’t thought about that really work! It really helped me a lot. Just open up to the counselor and vent everything that is on your mind. That’s the only way they can help.
You are worthy and it deserve a life of happiness and peace of mind! Go to YouTube and listen to some positive self affirmations. YOU Need to begin to believe in yourself and it doesn’t matter what anybody else thinks. 🌸🌸🌸😁
Don't compare yourself to no one, we all are different , we all are very intelligent that's why we get trap in depression anxiety panic etc, we keep on thinking and thinking negative things, trust me I feel almost the same as you but remember it's not ourselves it's just a phase of depression and anxiety we are going through, I beat it before naturally, I forced myself to eat , I just said to myself maybe we all are like this because I was very young I didn't know what was happening, so it went away with time and I gained weight, and now it's back at my 26 , but I think I triggered it myself thinking I had a tumor, and kept googling it, and I don't have a tumor , but now I'm here to deal with anxiety and depression again but staying strong, knowing this isn't real it's just the flight or fight response, our nervous system is active but it's gonna go back to normal eventually, good luck everyone.🙂
Hi Tara, when we are nervous around other people we can tend to drink more for courage. This does not help the situation and alcohol can turn us into someone we are not. I worked with a guy years ago who was a nice bloke but was warned about his behaviour when he was drunk. He threatened to get me sacked when I wasn’t impressed with a rather unsavoury conversation he started. He was mortified the following Monday! You need to be yourself as that is what people are attracted to. Don’t try and be something you’re not. Find like minded people. I started going to a cycling club as this was my hobby and I’ve met a great bunch of people who I have something in common with. I know that feeling of thinking everyone else’s lives are so fantastic but trust me, no one has that life!