Dear Susan,
Thank you, ma'am, for responding to my previous post.
You are correct, ma'am, in believing that it must have been "very difficult" when I had to leave my profession. I was angry and bitter for years about a so-called caring profession not being able to find other jobs that I'd be capable of doing within an organisation of such a size.
I was actually a hospital in-patient when I first received a letter from our Head Office, stating that I needed to attend for a medical examination. I telephoned to inform 'them' that I couldn't attend as I was a hospital in-patient, to which they replied that I should let them know when I was discharged so that they could arrange another date and time.
Unfortunately, by the time the second letter arrived, I was again a hospital in-patient. Looking back, I'm assuming that they must have believed that I was 'swinging the lead' ... trying to 'take them for a ride'. They stated that they'd meet me at my home address with a view to retirement on grounds of ill-health. I got straight on the phone to ask for union representation as I thought they were simply trying to 'railroad' me.
What a waste of time that was. On the day of the meeting, both the union representative and the person from our Head Office turned up, looking like they were holding hands as they came up the drive at the front of the house.
The representative from Head Office came well prepared. She had with her various documents stating how many years and days I'd worked for Social Services, how much I'd be getting as a lump sum, and how much I'd be getting as a monthly pension payment. The union rep was next to useless. I was looking for some sort of support, and help in arguing my case that an organisation the size of Social Services MUST have other positions that I could work in. Of course, the representative from Head Office asked me what I had in mind, to which I replied that I knew, for a fact, that modifactions had been made to various establishments around the borough where I live, and worked, for people with a range of different abilities. All the union rep was interested in was telling me that he'd got the same computer as I had, and that he was typing in a book about model railways. It made me wonder what the heck I'd been paying my union subscriptions for over the years.
The best of it was, I was found by someone, in a virtual state of collapse, outside a newsagent in the town where I live. He asked me if I was alright, and when I lifted my head to respond he said "Oh, it's you, Mick." "Are you alright?" The guy hust happened to be the Director of Social Services who I'd met and spoken with on quite a number of occasions.
I stated that I'd have been much better if Social Services hadn't got rid of me on health grounds. He seemed genuinely surprised that this had happened ... unless he was a phenomenal actor. He offered to arrange for me to do some work at home, offering to supply me with a computer and an internet connection, as the knowledge that I possessed on the different types of dementia, and the experience I had with working with both clients and their families, shouldn't go unused.
By the time I was well enough to go to Head Office and have a word with him, he'd left the organisation for 'new pastures' and hadn't passed on information regarding the offer he'd made me to the guy that took over his post.
I'm truly sorry that you've lived with infections for so long, Susan. You'd think that, in this day and age, by now they'd have worked out why you repeatedly get them and sort out some way of preventing it from happening, at least not so frequently.
I'm sure that being a nurse you aleady know that repeated infections ... particularly of the groin (usually urinary tract infections) is one of the symptoms that shows prior to someone being diagnosed with diabetes. (It's one of the more common symptoms, along with the three Ps ... polyuria, polydipsia, and polyphagia ... feelings of lethargy/tiredness, blurred vision, unexplained weight loss, etc.)
Higher than 'normal' blood glucose levels cna cause major damage to the body's organs, blood vessels, and nerves if not treated. Blood glucose levels can get so high that the sufferer could lapse into a diabetic coma. If not found, and admitted to hospital for emergency medical care, the person could very easily die. (There are a whole range of diabetes-related complications that can occur due to raised blood glucose levels, some of which can be a real pain ... literally; some that can prove embarrassing; and as I've just said, can prove fatal.)
The diabetes "epidemic" is considered a world wide phenomenon, ma'am, it's not just in Canada. (I don't actually live in the United States, Susan. I'm from the other side of the Atlantic ocean. I live in the UK (United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland.)
The Canadian Diabetes website is one of the better ones out there, Susan. Believe me, I've looked at many diabetes-related websites over the years from all around the world. The Canadian Diabetes site give FACTUAL information.
It's good that you're willing to learn new things, Susan. It's the only way that we get to develop our own mind. (I was a terrible student when I was at school ... when I actually attended, that is ... and now, for the last 35+ years, I've made myself learn about a whole range of different topics.) I'm glad that you learned something new on Saturday. It's that extra bit of knowledge that you can pass on to others.
Apologies for the length of this response. I could have gone on and on, but I doubt that that would have served much purpose.
Be well, Susan.
Lots of Love and Light.
Mick
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