High there,
It sounds to me that you are extremely anxious also very stressed out
and rightly so..Im not in the states but i suffer the same symptoms as
you and can..i have M.D. in my left ear and the symptoms are showing
up in the right ear which i have tell you i was told by the E.N.T. is about 50/50
to happen ..ive sufferd 17yrs..It sounds as though the sugery your talking
about is a last resort and any E.N.T. surgeon will exaust all the other options
first im thinking after 20 yrs you must have some hearing lose and also no
if its in the left or right or both ears..for me stress and anxiety are a catalist
and common symptoms of M.D. ..if your not already recieving help with these
issues i should talk to your doctor about meds and coping methods..
Drop attacks are the worst symptoms and are unpredictable as you said..
going out is very stressful for me its like information overload..like a sauce pan
of toxic liquid in my inner ear that spills over when i walk making me unbalanced
..to much information in my eyes does the same thing i.e busy paterns.. roundabouts
..tv that pans around or goes up and down also seround sound from tv ..and the list goes on..
so your ears and eyes work together and to M.D. sufferers it gets all to much..
i asked my E.N.T. when i first see him if it was due to my playing electric guitar
..he told me that would be classed as industrall hearing loss and would effect both ears
and menieres in most cases only effect one...
You have to except with menieres theres no cure only periods of remission ..
me myself have only ever be clear of attacks for a month or less but some people
can have years and not have attacks then they come back..the best you can wish
for is that it only effects the one ear and it can be controlled by meds..this is a list i think
in the u.k. a typical and are what i take..
Betahistine 16 mg + times 3 a day..
Bendroflumethiazide 2.5 mg +1 in the morning..
Cetrizine 10mg + 10mg + 1 in the morning..
i also take Propranolol for Anxiety 3+ a day
and duloxatine for deppression 1 + nightime..
Learning to breath properly was the best
thing i learnt also light medication and relaxtion
methods that involve light exercises in bed i.e.
lifting a leg just to the point of taking the stain
then letting go and remebering the relaxed feeling
then work the other limes the point is we can forget
how to relax from adrenaline in the body that build from
anxiety....i hope some of this helps you..but you must
seek out an ENT specialist in M.D...best wishes..