Recently my ex husband and I decided to try to make it work once again. This would be our fourth try. We have a teenager. It seemed like a good idea as neither one of us could let the other go. So I moved back in with him in the home we purchased together years ago. (I have my own home.) Almost immediately I developed anxiety. Let me also say I have a lot going on. I am being mandated at my job late into the night, not bring able to leave until 5am. We have major staffing issues. I cannot eat but a limited diet as I have gallbladder issues. If I eat the wrong thing I will pay for it with loss of sleep from pain and vomiting. My surgery is scheduled for mid-November. After that I plan on leaving a job I really like because of the above mentioned and because all those I was close to there have left. I want to say I would like to make it work with my ex because I have always loved him as a person. But I'm scared of the anxiety. I had to see my Dr and she gave me depression meds and something for anxiety. Today I came back to my own home after spending a week at my ex's. With no sleep and all the anxiety I had to make this decision for my mental health. I would like any and all comments from personnel or professional experience. Thank you.
Você pode adiar qualquer decisão até depois de sua cirurgia.
Somente você sabe exatamente qual é a situação. Talvez, após sua cirurgia, você não se sinta tão ansioso e isso pode ajudá-lo a lidar com outras coisas em sua vida.
Cuide-se.
Thanks for the response. Right now I'm taking it moment by moment. I am calling my Dr for a referral to speak to a professional asap. I feel like I should not be this scared about something and someone I genuinely care about.
Se no Reino Unido existe uma organização chamada Relate para orientação e aconselhamento matrimonial.
Acho que você pode se encaminhar.
I'm in the US. I'm sure we have something similar. Thank you again harriet67221. 