I'm going through exactly the same thing and have walked out on her and my children. I can't take it anymore. I love them both deeply buy it is hurting me too much. Lately she has started sleeping in his room and it was the straw that broke the camels back for me. Any advice ease I'm so depressed over this.
Scott
How do you do it you ask? Well not very well. I am sure this will take years off of my life. Like an itch you can never seem to scratch.
To the guys, that sexy vibrant woman is still there,it's likely you that has changed. In very general terms, you need to get with her on an emotional level, and for you a physiological level. In other words, you need to treat her like you did when you first dating, and do things that she wants to do. At the same time, you need to be the MAN of the house, women like strong men. Think it through and act on these things and that woman that loved loving you will return. Trust me, in a lot of cases it's not her or her sex drive!
Well Jay that would work for the average woman but my wife is far from average.
Hey mate i went through this for 18 months.
This is what did it for me to get back my wife back
Step 1 . When she argues just say im sorry but there is no talki g to you at this time i will talk when you are not in such a bad mood
Step 2 be constant i told my wife i loved her every night and day
Step 3 proberly the most important
If you dont already be a part of the childrens day get up make their lunches cook dinner and help with the house work..
Step 4 dont force her to do some thing she doesnt want be patiant
Just remember when a women says no I'm having no more sex, that's it its finished for her.
Just tie a knot in your penis as it wont get used anymore with her, sad but true.
If I was younger and my wife said sex is done, I'd leave her.
Sorry mate but its a fact of life, but you would have to do what you do, you either accept her or you leave her, but then she is your partner in more that just sex, or is she just your sex machine, think about it?
Maybe so Howard but she is your partner in all things which includes sex. If she makes attempt to fix the problem the her partner has to decide whether to the rest of his life without sex or find someone that is sexually compatablie. I know and often say " nfor better or worse" but she has to be willing to at least try and fix the problem.