Hey ladies! Before menopause I was a very sensual and flirty woman. In fact, I have a Marilyn Monroe quote that I lived by for years. I even have this quote inscribed on my favorite wine glass. "I'm very definitely a woman and I enjoy it!" ~Marilyn Monroe Let's just say, I'm still very definitely a woman but I don't enjoy it any more lately. Sex has become a chore for me now. I know it's one of those things I have to do as a wife. Sometimes it's very painful and others times it's just very exhausting. With this constant bloating, gas and pain in my right side, I don't feel very sexy. Afterwards, I typically like to cuddle, but that's become impossible because laying on my side is so uncomfortable and I'm usually too exhausted to appreciate the cuddles. I miss the flirty, sensual me and I hope she returns someday. Hang in there!
OleGurl, i have had the luxury of being single during this difficult time because the last thing I want to do is have sex. flip side of that is that you may have support from your husband. yes I miss the flirty sexy lady i used to be. she may come back ! we just need to hang in there - cheers to you.