I'm 52, and last period was 1 1/2 yrs ago. I'm having classic symptoms of menopause, but not severely. In the last couple of months though, I've developed a sharp fishy odor in my genitals. I can smell it when I sit with my legs open in a chair, even after showering. I have zero discharge. Zero, ever. Dry as a bone, as evidenced after wearing undies for a day, and then I wear thin cotton. Usually, I wear cotton loose skirts and nothing else, no panties. No urinary leakage, either (hence no need for panties under skirts). No discharge to get on my skirts. I am not itchy, ever either.I shower every day, often twice, with a handheld shower nozzle, directly on area. As recommended by my Gyn., mostly just gentle fingers in all the crevices, labial folds, etc. and H20. In desperation, I've tried Cetaphil, unscented Dove, etc. Nothing harsh. I am clean when I get out and then I've looked in a hand mirror, no visible discharge anywhere after toweling. Even after just drying off, with inner labia skin dry, I can touch JUST the skin (not inside where the urinary opening is) and smell the finger. There is definitely the faint smell of fishiness. Just the skin, not a discharge, not a day's sweat (even after I've tried soap)! Right out of the shower. Within a couple of hours I can smell myself very strongly if I just bend over at the waist. This is not the disease known as "trimethylaminuria (fish odour syndrome)". I'm not on any new meds, no new diet or exercise regime. My vitals, cholesterol, appear those of a 25 yr. old, and I'm super healthy, exercise, etc. Please note the measures I've already taken:
It's NOT (BV) Bacterial vaginosis. TESTED last week at the Gyn. Negative.
STDs? TESTED for EVERYTHING though I'm married 22 yrs. Negative.
No discharge at ALL to even smell. ALWAYS DRY. None
I eat yogurt daily, though I've stepped it up lately out of desperation.
My husband is too kind to agree with me that anything has changed there odor-wise. But I can see his face during sex, and forget about letting him go down there. He and I used to laugh that I (really do) smell like Scotch tape. Not bad, just fun and curious.
. I don't believe in all of the homeopathic remedies. I just don't. My doc doesn't seem keen on HRT, and this is killing my sexual mental health and harming my married life. I'm so disgusted and embarrassed about the smell, I can't even have orgasms because I'm too self-conscious.
Should I insist on HRT or ERT, or whatever? I'm not hight risk for breast cancer, nor stroke or heart disease.