Mole on vulva right above ingrown hair

I've noticed i had an ingrown hair and lately which isn't an abnormal thing for me honestly, and with my anxiety I happen to pick at my skin alot. I just noticed tonight that there seems to be a mole right above the area and I wanted to get others thoughts on it. should I be concerned? I'm trying my hardest to leave it be at this point.

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