My Anus is giving me trouble

Hello, Before I start, I made a Dr. appointment on the 4th and another one this week. Shoot I might even go to the ER because I need answers.. Anyway last week Tuesday. I had sex with my partner and we both were clean. He however had cold sores on his lips but they were forming/ very first stage. He wanted to try anal but couldn't get it in and was really really rough with it..fingers and all. Also he used his spit multiple times as lube. Fast forward I started to get irritation from the ass area, at first I didn't think nothing of it but a minor scratch maybe. A week later...I gotten curious and decided to spread them cheeks because it started to get a bit sore/painful. I looked and found 3 medium sized bumps/pimples lacerations around my anus. Now I started to freak out and called/chat/emailed every doctor available and ask them "do I have herpes?" because looking on the internet the symptoms regarding to pain were similar and looks similar too in a way. Anywho, below is a picture of the victim and praying to the gods I do not have herpes...we will see though.

here is the image

go see a doctor and have them swab it.

yea I’m going first thing tomorrow

also don’t let them just visually diagnose you. ask for a swab and to make it type specific so you which strain of hsv I could be. fingers crossed for you and hope it is nothing serious

thank you so much, this the first time I’m ever did something like this and am pretty shaken up by it. I will definitely give updates on it once I’m back.

UPDATE PART 1

I went to the clinic and she told me that it doesn’t look like herpes and that I really didn’t experience symptoms that usually come with herpes but since they came in clusters she was going to swab me anyway.
she advise me in the meantime to ease the Irritation to continue putting petroleum jelly and witch hazel on the area and lo and behold look at my anus now. it’s still a bit sore and the bumps are less there but I’m feeling good.

its just a sore or bump. nothing to be worried about. ive seen like that before. it shud be heal in a week or less

thank you so much, my doctor and I thought the same too but it turns out I have HSV-1 which is fine. I’ve came to terms with it.