Wow so many auto corrects sorry. It won’t let me edit. Because if he knew he had it then he had a responsibility to let you know before he gave it to you. But if you just want to let it go I understand that too. I have a feeling my bf knew he had it before he gave it to me but it was too hurtful to think that he gave it to me knowingly because I was already hurting from being infected (and then having an abortion) it was too much to handle.
I’m in the same situation. I’m almost positive my boyfriend knew he had it before he gave it to me. But it hurts too much to think that someone who claims to love you would do that to you 😕 I just let it go with my boyfriend, feels pointless to play the blame game at this point since there’s nothing we can do anyways.
I would think your bf got it elsewhere and not from you. I was a carrier of it for years and had no idea until I had my first outbreak. I started seeing this guy and we had sex and 48 hours later I was in the worst pain of my life next to labour. I was so angry at him and assumed he gave it to me and didn’t tell me. I went and got the blood work and swans done and it came back HSV 2 and negative for HSV 1. HSV 2 levels also came back stating I had the virus in my system for longer than 4 weeks which means I didn’t get it from him and prior to him I hadn’t had sex in well over a year and a half. Meaning I was a carrier. I felt awful but it is possible.
Hi, its been 3 months since this post. My bf & I are still together & we are in a happier place than I was when I wrote this post. A little update: I can say that your claims are false, no sense playing the blame game. He has herpes, & ive been having so much unprotected sex & oral with him & I never once got an outbreak to this day.. The answer for the cure lies in medicinal mushrooms & I can say that it has cured his herpes. The first two months he has bad horrible outbreaks that would often come back & take weeks to heal, hence the doctor had diagnosed him with a bad case of HSV2. The last two months we would fight a lot & he kept having recurring OB's. He started taking Paul Stamets mushroom supplements for immune boosting & last week we had a huge fight, he was under so much stress a blister began to form on his shaft, but it healed so fast without antibiotics in like 2 days by the time i saw him it was a dry scab. FYI, he doesnt have the best diet but has been able to manage his stress, depression & anxiety a bit better recently which could be a potential contributing factor. Im also taking the same mushrooms supplements for prevention. All i can say is that if you're suffering from herpes to take these supplements!
Hi Ashley,
I came back to this post & seen what you had left in response to someone else. I feel that I need to inform you & encourage you to take Paul Stamets Host Defense mushroom supplements for Immune Support. He's a mycologist who claims it can aid herpes, HIV, cancer, HVP. To this day I have not had a single herpes OB. Also, my bf & I are still sexually active, use no protection. I can definitely say it has aided my bf from HSV2. He no longer relies on synthetic antibiotics. This virus was without a doubt man made to keep big pharma in bussiness, but theres is no cure like nature. Im also taking these supplements for prevention. We are loving the results.
Hi Ashley, I hope this messages finds you.
But I just want to thank you for being there for me back then, I havent logged in here.
But my HSV2 is weird or at least the strain i have. Ever since this post my now ex bf kept getting reocurring outbreaks which began to spread (hence he eats poorly, overworks himself, high stress functioning). He was diagnosed mid 2018, my first OB didnt happen until 2 years later, in 2020 (my ex & i continued with no protection bcuz I had initially given him this disease , i still believe to this day, even tho some say it couldnt be) Regardless, my first OB wasnt too bothersome as it felt like an ingrown hair & healed quick. After that up until now in 2021, ive only had 2 outbreaks total in 3 years. Is this normal? Ofc im thankful HSV2 its not a big deal for me but would they get worse? or is my immune system just that good & potentially beating this virus? I think the only reasons I got those two outbreaks were because I cut myself shaving , I hear that it very possible, im curious if you can confirm this with me? Lastly, thank you for refering that site to me. Its not easy being single with this diesease now & having to open up about it to someone new, but purhaps ill just focus on myself for now..
does anyone know that this is? its on the inside of my butt cheek no pain no pain when urinating , came a few days after wax and i wear butt plugs which sometimes rubs against my skin
Hi just reading this thread. I went to my OB and said it looks like i do hv herpes but im still awaiting for the results. Just wondering, me and my bf had unprotected sex last Jan 11, feb and march but neither of us feel or notice anything down there.. The Recent we did that was last saturday. Then week later i hv these sores all over my genitalia, still my bf is completely normal. Im sure he didn’t cheat bcos we both wfh. But does it take that long for someone to show up symptoms?