I had my right hip replaced 4.5+ years ago and found this forum at that time. I was 57 at the time and am now 62. I still have some residual issues; muscle weakness, scar tissue, leg length discrepancy. But all in all, I do not regret getting the surgery.
My brother is 60 and his left hip was bone on bone with two nasty bone spurs. When he first saw his surgeon, the doctor remarked that my brother must be a “tough son of a bitch” to be walking around like that. My brother is a production manager in the food industry and walks miles a day within a facility on concrete floors. He also cycles 100s of miles a month and is in great shape for his age. In fact, he cycled the day before his surgery at his doctor’s suggestion!
On November 10, he had his surgery and was released the next day. By November 20, he was walking without a cane, off the heavy meds, driving his car and cycling on his recumbent stationary bike. He is absolutely amazing! All of this to say, if you are holding off on getting your hip replacement done because you are scared of the surgery, JUST DO IT. The change in your quality of life will be life-altering. The sooner you can get back to doing the things you love, the better.