When did you first notice these symptoms, how long ago? When you pull down your foreskin when did this start to be a problem?
Here is some information from a reliable medical source:
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What causes inflamed meatus?
Urethral syndrome has various causes. Common causes may include physical problems with the urethra, such as abnormal narrowing or urethral irritation or injury. The following can cause irritation to the urethra: scented products, such as perfumes, soaps, bubble bath, and sanitary napkins.
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Do you know why your Meatus may be like this?
If the symptoms continue it would be best for you to see a urologist
Looks like lichen sclerosis. See dermatologist