i personally think its because alot of womens hormones drop nice and neatly and dont fluctuate wildy, i mean my mum had no symptoms and was done at a young age. even on here there are some that suffer and some that can hardly function to work etc, this sucks!!! xx
I agree. It was the same with my mom. She had none of these symptoms. Just hot flashes and night sweats. To be honest, I had no idea that hormones could wreak such havoc on our bodies. It’s the worst!!
A dr told me that women who experienced a tramatic past or very stressful one , suffers badly during this time. I looked at my own life and compared it to my 3 sisters and see some truth to that because i endured hell compared to them. I get so angry at times and ask the question why me because it’s just not fare.
its not fair some of us has to go through this hell and some breeze through it. havent heard anyone in my friend circle who has anything even close to what i am going through. 
horrible!
wow that could be true you know xx
it is very very unfair, i used to never stay still and now struggle with everything xx
Same here i asked my mom about it she told me she had none of the symptom’s i m experiencing poor me im suffering day in outworrying every morning what is next if i tell my friends they even don’t get what im talking about , prayer-and hope keeps me going
Hello Hopeforever..
Your post is VERY profound; thanks for your insight.
you can message me anytime lovely, im crippled with symptoms, hugs xx
Very profound indeed. Its crazy how some women suffer more than others. None of my sister’s including my mom went through such hell. I am currently fighting sinus and migraine head aches. Just hate all of this. Wishing all the women well on this forum.
I truly believe that stress or past trauma has something to do with the difficulties we are all facing without any explanation from drs or any health professional. When i am not that stressed, i find that my symptoms have subsided tromendesly , but when all hell is breaking loose in my life my symptoms are worse. I believe there are so many contributing factors as to why we are all suffering but not one grounded solution to help us out of the suffering. God help us all get through. Much love everyone.
hope do you ever get migraines that make your forehead feel bruised xx
yes very bad ones. Last month i went through hell . I never had migraines until peri. And to top it off my sinus flare ups. only God can help us. This is torture. Hang in there.
thanks lovely, im so dizzy, its the top of my forehead feels bruised xx
Hello HF..
I am convinced, sinus problems are DEFINITELY menopausal-related. I know for a fact, migraines are. That said, I have NEVAA had allergies, yet when I began my peri-menopausal journey, my doctor told me I have allergies! Shut the front door and call me Mary! There are soooo… MANY undocumented menopausal symptoms, some I think women are afraid to utter.
Hey Priya..
When it comes to menopause, FAIRNESS went out the window!
Hey Toria..
I understand, totally!
Same. God will see us through 
the suffering and debilitating here and in my own menopause is horrific. I dont know why we suffer so awfully.i read that ladies who breeze thru it have the LUCK of their ovaries providing all they need whereas we have horrendous drops that DISMANTLE our body/brain. its unreal how some women dont suffer meno. i want my misery to end. im so sorry you ladies suffer this horror SO!! im so saddened we lost our happy selves.
peri meno lasted 15 years now im post and worse than ever. I dont want to live anymore.
symptoms: total utter r exhaustion, insomnia, crazy bladder, deep pain like withdrawal?? breast tenderness, hot and freezing, heart palps extreme depression anxiety, arrythmia night sweats etc etc god bless you all
pilar its really sad your story. Hang in there we are all here for you. please don’t give up. I know it’s really hard but you must push through. Trust in God knowing it will end one day. Sending you hugs and prayers.