I found this forum a couple of weeks after my op. I was looking for information on how to relax my thigh muscle, and I found so much help, advice and information here, I checked in most days.
I'm now fully recovered although I will be having my left hip done too shortly.
People often ask for information and experiences here - that is what the forum is for - but while you would think it would be cut and dried, its so difficult to gauge how individuals will respond to the operation. Every single person has had a different experience for whatever reasons.....maybe some had pre existing conditions but mainly I think it comes down to your particular surgeon, you're own personal healing capabilities, your fitness levels pre op, maybe even positive mental attitude has a lot to do with it.
In the end, if you're having it done, you will deal with it and cope, however it goes, there is no option.
I also would just like to add that the surgeons, doctors, nursing staff, auxiliaries all do a fabulous job - sometimes against all the odds. They are at work at all kinds of ridiculous hours for crazily long times and yet I only had 1 who gave me reason to moan to my partner - and looking back that was probably more because I was tired and frustrated than anything she said or did.
It's a fabulous operation that will change your life, and it's available free of charge in the UK, incredible! How lucky are we!
My advice?
Try to relax and 'go with the flow'
I, for one, will be eternally grateful for being able to go sledging with my young grandchildren yesterday instead of sitting watching the fun and games.
It will all be well in the end.....