My tonsils have fleshy lumps by them. Is this normal?

hello, i would really like some assistance to see if my throat and tonsils are normal. I am a 23 year old girl - i do smoke and i am sexually active with my partner of 3 years.
i have become worries as i have found out an ex boyfriend has been diagnosed with herpes which made me start researching as apparently he could have had this for years and not known. i am going to requesting a blood test just incase for myself but my first available doctors appointment is 1st april and i am worried about this now.

i started checking myself over and i noticed that i have these fleshy lumps in the pictures by my tonsils and when i have googled this it doesnt look like the standard healthy tonsils and throat. can anyone help and confirm if this looks normal or what this could be?

I have really similar lumps but on the flap directly in front of my tonsil instead of directly on the tonsil. Was wondering if you ever found out what it is? By the way, my girlfriend has herpes and I just assume I have it too.