Nee poster: making myself sick with health anxiety

I have this mole that popped up a few years ago during my 2nd pregnancy. Since then its grown/changed with each subsequent pregnancy. It’s still really small (despite the picture) it’s about 1/4 the size of a pencil eraser, not raised, doesn’t itch/bleed etc. I ma absolutely convinced and terrified that its melanoma because of the two different colors and irregular borders. I have made myself sick over it, cant sleep etc. I am 27 and have 4 children, and I am so scared I’m going to die.

hello

sorry to hear you are going through this. I too have had the same fear many time , along with the fear of many other illnesses. only the other day I started worrying about a mole on my face that someone pointed out to me..even though I was aware of it I still panicked. luckily I had a picture from a year ago and the year before of it to compare to it now and it was the same as before. my nole has to different colours, and I have a mole on my back that is to colours as well , ans one in my scalp (which I had checked out and they weren’t conceded)

pregnancy can make moles changes (I remember researching when I was pregnant as I’m paranoid )

I would say get it checked for peace of mind, but I’m sure it’s nothing