so this guy i dated broke up with me suddenly. we were great friends for a long time and decided to give it a try. i am doing my best to stay distracted and not be so sad but i am. it's lame i know. help? he will not talk to me at all. he basically vanished despite the fact that the break up wasn't bad, we ended on good terms. i have like a knot in my stomach, i have to force eat. i get twitches throughout my body. the mornings and afternoons to night time are the worse for me because i am so used to him being there. we went from friends, to best friends to dating to now...strangers i feel. help please?
Tiff, sorry about the break up. However, he most likely did you a favor. In a good relationship, both people have to feel good about it and want to stay. He may have felt that you were better off friends or maybe he was not ready for a relationship. And that’s OK! It’s good that he recognized that.Better to end it now and move on. It would not have worked because he obviously did not feel comfortable.
Don’t take it personally because this is just the way these things work. You need to find the right fit for yourself to have a great relationship.
There are millions of people out there many of which would be great for you! Stay active and busy and do things you enjoy without even trying to look for someone. Many times people meet their perfect match when they’re not even looking! Take care