Hello. I'm new to this forum. Age 56, very active, delivered 2 kids 25-30 yrs ago vaginally, no complications except for a fistula surgery a year after. I suffer from gastric reflux, IBS (usually diahrrea), and internal/external hemorrhoids which recently gave me a rough ride last month. So I went to a new colorectal specialist a few weeks ago due to a rare bout of constipation that was causing pain, bleeding and rectal prolapse. She dx'd hemorrhoids, prescriped cream & recommended surgery for them in the next few months after the inflammation recedes. In the meantime, I saw my gyn for annual exam and mentioned all this, because the perineum, episiotomy area was also inflamed and bulging all over. She dx'd me with a rectocele, said it was minimal, we could monitor it or it could be repaired but really didn't discuss exact details. Not even sure what grade the rectocele is.
So ... what next? Have the hemorrhoid surgery first, or can it all be corrected with one surgery by a specialist? I have followup with the colorectal early January and will mention the rectocele, which is clearly bothering me more.
I think I'm going to schedule a full consult with my gyn to discuss this rectocele, as she is specialty trained in the Da Vinci robotics surgery. I'm starting to research that. I think this has been developing for a long time but I've ignored the symptoms because I'm active - exercise nearly every day with kickboxing, gym, etc. Not much stops me! But I have noticed occasional urinary retention, slackness in vaginal area, flatulence not able to control, some sexual issues I just chalked up to early menopause. But now I'm thinking it's all related. What a mess.
Geez, I'd like to get "fixed" in one fell swoop as I am impatient and know from past surgeries I was chomping at the bit to get back into action. I will be following this forum for your wonderful advice! Thanks.