When I was 12 I blocked myself for having sexual desires telling myself all the time that it was wrong to have those feelings (bc I Felt nasty) now i cant be sexual aroused in any way. Its been 7 years and Ive never masturbated or had Sex. I already told my psicologist and she told me that one day it will come Back again and that I just have to wait. I just wanna feel like a normal person and have a sexual desire like everyone else. I Know that Sex is not bad or nasty but even knowing that I cant get horny like an average person. What can I do?? Should I take pills?? Should I get hypnotherapy or something like that ?? What do I have to do?? Please help and yes even if I think about sex or watch porn I still feel literally nothing
I think it is important never to be anxious about sex. Your first encounter could be fun or a disaster. I would read about sex by looking up a sex guide and experiment with yourself initially then move onto a sexual partner when you feel ready for it.
(sorry about the late reply, but I only just saw your post)
I'm not sure your psychologist is right that you'll eventually (re-?)develop a sex drive just by waiting. I don't think there are any medications that will help, but talking to a sex therapist might. There may not be a real problem though. Not everyone has much of a sex drive, and that isn't really a problem these days since you can find plenty of people on the internet who feel the same way, and who may want romantic but not sexual relationships, or who are happy just being single. Some estimates are that up to 3% of the population are asexual, and if you google "asexual BBC", they have some good articles.
Lots of people haven't had sex or masturbated by age 19 btw, and not everyone gets turned on by watching porn or thinking about sex. Maybe you'll suddenly develop sexual desire if you're with the right person, but even if that never happens, it wouldn't mean there's something wrong with you. We're all different, and that's ok. 