Not sure if it’s Herpes or it’s from rough sex

.. I had unprotected sex (June 25) with a guy I’m dating and i shaved proir, Also his penis is very big and wide. i was dry and it hurt going in..He kind of forced it and we also attempted anal, but stopped cause its too wide. i begged him to stop all together because it had became too painful … i feel he ripped me pretty good near my perineum, but i can’t explain the 3 ulcer or burn looking things.. I’m not scared of it being something ..but just curious if anyone relates or has an opinion…i noticed this thursday 29th but felt it the day after…
First pic was thursday (29th)image
Second pic thursday (29th) but stretched out to show it better image
3rd Yesterday (30th)

that looks like either friction burns or herpes. looks excruciating! my god go and get seen to asap.

i does look like herpes but go get tested to be sure, do they itch or burn, do you have any other symptoms ?

they dont hurt unless my pee hits them but thank you

they became irritated today a slight itch i think cause they are healing not sure and only burn if my pee hits it.... discharge symptom

its common for herpes sores to only burn when pee touches them , i would definitely get them swab tested, as that will be the most accurate form of testing.

Im sure its common for any cut or open sore to burn when pee touches it? but yeah i get you im getting swab done monday will keep updated

im having this exact problem rn idk if it's herpes or friction from rough sex. pls let know when you get swabbed

Got my Swabs today, Im told that its herpes so far, she’s seen dozens of cases so I’m visually diagnosed with herpes, waiting for my swab test to come.

It got worse today now i even know for a fact i have genital herpes, I cried alot in the car yesterday but my ex boyfriend told me he loved me still and gave me a kiss on the cheek lol so my support has been great...anybody need someone to talk to I’m here, just know we can still live happy lives!!! Happy 4th I’m just mad i dont know who gave it to me tbh

hey, i hope that you're doing okay. at the end of the day it is a cold sore which we al look at so normally, as a man, it really wouldn't bother me personally. i do hope you're okay though

hey im doing fine thank you! Yeah im pretty strong willed i know ill get thru this and live a normal life appreciate you...

crazy how common it is

my test came back " not isolated " but ive had these since the middle of May. could the test be a false negative ?

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Yeah I’m not sure honestly i got mines swabbed...do you have swollen lymph nodes or any symptoms

mine looks the exact same as yours if not worse! The pain is awful! what did your dr prescribe and has it gotten better? mine was also triggered by rough sex and trying to enter when i was dry. looked like little cuts until they got much worse :(

yes mines got way worse over the days before i got tested (Kept thinking its burns and they’ll heal.. but they didn’t) i got prescibed Valacyclovir I’ve been taking my meds and its helped so much the ulcers are healing and the pain is completely gone i sometimes forget i have it lol I don’t stress it I’m here if you need to talk

does this look like a herpes outbreak or ingrown hairs .? please help image

in my opinion it looks like Herpes ulcers ...could be infected ingrown hairs though, do you have any other symptoms? flu like, swollen lymph nodes etc? those were my symptoms

im so glad youre getting better!! I went to the doc yesterday and she visually confirmed HSV but did the swab to be sure. i cried almost the whole appt but luckily she was so kind and talked me through everything. i am also on Valacylovir too but have only taken two doses so not much change other than the blisters rupturing and having some liquid stuff (its pretty gnarly lol). she also gave me pain meds and gabapentrin for nerve pain which helps my cooch not feel like somone took a baseball bat to it. Doc did say my outbreak is severe and it is way worse than any pics ive seen on here :( i tbink its because i shaved when it was in the early stages so i could see what was going on (i had a BUSH) so it spread more. I cant wait for this to be better!
whew i guess i needed to unload all that! i feel alone with this because i dont want to share with anyone :( other than future partners but that is a loooong way off.