tested back in november of 2019 then again a month later. now i have waited and tested again with all negative results but no answeras to what is going on. 
it may not be herpes causing it if tests are negative could b something else like molluscum that causes skin spots that scab up to
thank you, i just dont know what else to do. lol, i havent even so much as looked at a woman that way in several months cause with no answers, i dont want to take any risks.
you should see a dermatologist.. and for your peace of mind, have it swabbed.