over did it

Cleaned house top to bottom yesterday after having my grandson and waking up early with him and working its all taken its toll on me today last nite i slept for12hours straight not feeling to good today sooo drained and in pjs

Hi HOTpicks99

Ahh poor you.  Take it easy and have a relaxing few days and treat yourself to some ME time !

Gentle hugs !  x

Hi Hotpicks99

Know exactly how you fee, i feel like this every time i try to do normal things with this M.E. Cant even look through clothes in a shop if the rail is above me as it makes my arms ache to move them. need to tidy up seriously up stairs so ive chose this weekend with hubbys help so i can rest on Monday, i know im going to feel totaly exhausted afterwards, people just dont understand do they. Hope you recover ok.

Sue x

No they dont think my family thinksi can still run aroynd after everyone i wish i could im getting tired to easily now laid on my sofa all day feel like a sack of potatoes literally glad u have help be careful not to overdo it hugsxx

I am been on my sofa all aftrrnoon cant move glad i have a few days off from work thank you hugs to you xx

Chill out and indulge in complete stress free zone  x

Wish i could but i have kids outside kicking a football against my front wall kids these days dont respect their elders

Hi HOTpicks;  yes I can understand your frustration re not knowing how to say "no" when my children ask if I can do the school pickup/babysit etc...there are days that yes, I am ok, and say yes...but boy do I also regret it after they (the younger ones) have gone home and  I feel the pain/exhaustion....and you have also made me realize why I have a few more extras pain points today....thought I was going to be a "good" girl and clean out the cupboards, as I couldn't find anything....well will have to go back to Just putting up with the consequences.....  that's how I feel today, and yesterday, and probably tomorrow/next week....this is the one place that I can communicate without having to talk/use my facial muscles/jaw....thanks to all of you....and I'll try and spread my arms wide enough to give you all a hug................................Bron

Hi again, my problem is i still wear makeup and do my hair, then i get well you look ok!

 

I dont wear make up at all never have how do you know what i look likexx

Cheers bron it is cruel and unless u r a sufferer u wont understand what we r going through take care could write more but my hands r playing up best wishes xx

Understand totally what you mean, I feel so good doing like my old self, but I now its going to bit me on the backside, that evening and the next few days😕

LOl no my comment well you look ok is what others say to me, wasnt referring to you, of course i dont know what you look like xx

Lol have same problem, and because I refuse to be beaten, and show jow much pain in, people don't relies how hard this illness is to live with, my one give away is my eye start to look Chinese, no offence meant if you are. (Chinese that is)

HI again HOTpicks99, aww poor you, thats awful, one of our neighbors had this problem with kids kicking ball up against her wall so know how this can get you down, is it a council house, if so there should be a no balls notice put up and they should fence around the area, this what they did with our neighbor.  

Make up is like my camouflage, I feel better about me, when i wear it,

Some days are hard specially when my body is hurting and tired, but I fight on like a stubborn old mare🐴 lol keep you chin up and plaster away, it for you not anyone else x

Hi tiff74;  EXACTLY....I have always followed something my mother once said to me  "look into someones' eyes....that'll tell you all you need to know about them"....and it's true....whether they're not well, sad, or even their personality...if they can can look you straight in the eye...it tells you and them, all you/they need to know.....and yes, my eyes are getting MORE closed as the years go by...always tired.....Bron

So you not Chinese then lol.

Not having great morning in a lot of pain. My husband let me have lay in bless him, but it takes me ages to get going in the morning, specially if don't get up early.

Hi tiff74, precisley, its my camouflage too, as i say to people in my family, i may feel unwell but im not giving in to looking it as well. only time i dont bother is when im so ill i have to stay in bed. True its for us and  no one else, if i like what i see in the mirror then thats a good uplift for the day, a struggle maybe but well worth it. x

Me to, mornings are worse and i dont feel 'normal' sometimed till evenings, i dread early morning visits.