Hi DoubleEm!
Welcome to the forum!😄
A poster in my orthopedic surgeon's office that I look at every time I visit shows the progress of osteoarthritis. One segment speaks to the arthritis beginning as early as age 30. Looking back at my own experiences I believe I first noticed a change in my joints after my first pregnancy at age 29.
Arthritis seems to hit areas that may have experienced wear and tear and also injury such as falls even during our young lives. I was an avid skater my whole life with many falls on my knees as a kid.
I have experienced flares in my arthritis a number of times over the years. Arthritis can be quite sneaky, coming on in new areas of the body with little or no warning.
For me it was my INSURANCE which kept me at bay with their dog and pony show. Physical therapy (got WORSE after it!😡
Cortisone shot ( was without pain for FOUR DAYS only!😧
,and Meloxicam pain medication added by my Rheumatologist (gave me a stomach ulcer!😱
Was REFUSED by insurance company in getting the OrthoDisc shots to help build lost cartilage which MIGHT have helped.
Became extremely disillusioned with the whole mess so DID NOT revisit doctors for four years after all that.
Sudden EXCRUTIATING pain one morning in left knee. Could put NO WEIGHT on that leg for a day and a half and was on crutches. FINALLY broke down and made my appointment. X-rays showed much-developed bowing of both legs, disintegration of cartilage and progression of arthritis.
Expected my surgeon to say I was a candidate for arthroscopic surgery, which often is the next step suggested by insurance companies. FORTUNATELY I was too late for that and NOW (FINALLY!!!) a candidate for knee replacements!!!🎉🎉🎉😁
I made my appointment for surgery on that painful left knee BEFORE I left the office! Three and a half months later I had my right knee replaced.
I have arthritis in many parts of my body two years later, but my KNEES feel GREAT!!!😁🥁🥁🎉💥😁 Best decisions EVER!!!
I hope you see another doctor who will be more sympathetic to your pain. Losing weight and exercising sore joints often isn't enough. WAITING is like telling a person with a broken leg to WAIT until later. Just BAD ADVICE in my opinion!!!
My "waiting" wasted my time, gave me more pain, worsened my joints, removed my cartilage to cause bone-on-bone WORSE pain, and made me lose much of my life experiences due to my pain. I also could have done without that stomach ulcer, too!👿
I hope this helps.
Nobody should have to live in pain.
Let me know how things go for you, OK?♥️