please help me

hi...iam 23 years old and i was married 4 months back.my problem is iam having a cyst type at the bottom of vulva(near vagine). its not paining  nor irritating but its not redusing.what should i do.iam getting white discharge also.my elders told that after marrige white discharge will be controled but still iam getting white discharge.

Hello Saiappu.

White discharge is a normal part of being a woman, whether you are married or not, and cannot be controlled. I would go to the doctor about the cyst. Do not be embarrassed about seeing the doctor, they are used to seeing women's bodies.

I had one on my labia and I found that having a warmer than normal bath, drew the pus out and it disappeared after two weeks. You need to be examined by a doctor to determine whether it is a cyst or something else.

thank u for ur reply.i already went to the doctor but sheis not telling about that anything she is saying leave it thats it,but i had fear up to know.when iam touching the cyst its like ball feel.can u say me is it give me any problem.and to iam thinking to poastpone my pregnency wheather pills or c... are good which should i prefer please suggect me

I would ask to see a different doctor. Sometimes you have to be persisitent. Has she made a diagnosis? If not tell her you want a diagnosis or to be referred to a gynaecologist.

Could be a cyst to me,can get blocked up any part of your body,and I mean anywhere,some can get fairly large,so get a Gyne dr to look at it,but any dr worth there salt can recognise one of them,just by look and feel.things us females put up with,no joke .x

hi thank u for u reply but extactly i didnt get u will u plz send me in detail

saiappu, it is difficult to understand everything a doctor is saying or to think of what to ask even when English is your first language. You need to bring someone with you who has a better command of English when seeing the doctor. Contact  your doctor's office and ask them to send you the diagnosis from your examination in writing. It will be in your medical records. If your doctor said to just leave it, she thinks it is not serious. Any questions you have about getting pregnant should be answered by your doctor. Good luck.