Please help me

hi all –

here’s my timeline:

-unprotected sex with a friend Sept 28
-probably around Oct 25th, started having itching … some redness
-tested for chlamydia/gonorrhea Oct 31, came back negative
-started noticing some more redness and some white spots on the mons pubis/other vulva, not raised or fluid filled, just flat white spots
-went to a clinic, tested for yeast/BV, was clear, said they didn’t think herpes
-went on vacation out of the country 11/13-11/9 came back, had some pain under armpits
-got hsv2 igg test at about 8 weeks past exposure, came back negative

  • didn’t really go away, have some white marks now at the top of the vulva, almost look like insect bites? no fluid in sight
  • then got sick, fever chills for a day or so, mainly sore throat/cough
  • now here we are, still have flat white dots all on my mons pubis, the white things on my vulva – i have ad nauseam been inspecting my vagina, had about 700 mental breakdowns
  • its now Dec 5 and my outer vulva is still absolutely painful, burning most of the time

i feel like i’ve had almost every herpes symptom, and this is what i mean by the white marks on the top opening and redness. its been going on so long now, and i have an OBGYN appt in a week, and am planning on testing again.

any advice on what the ■■■■ is happening? do primary outbreaks last this long? hFile size is too bigelp me!File size is too big

i should also mention i have hsv1 and have been getting cold sores since i was a kid

hi there!

cant really tell much from the photos.

i do want to say, our stories sound somewhat similar. i dont have anything specifically herpes looking. i started having pain jan 2018 and am STILL having discomfort. ive been to 3 doctors and cant figure out whats up. its so hard not knowing but also not being comfortable, so i understand your pain!