Please tell me if this looks like herpes


i have had sex with 2 men in the past 10 years, both in the last year. Last time was 3 months ago. We were both tested and negative for everything. No HSV test because neither of us ever had symptoms. These 2 bumps showed up yesterday out of nowhere. They are painful when touched. I did use a suction vibrator a couple days ago. Could this be a friction burn?

is it painful when pasting urine

thanks for responding! no, its not painful when i urinate Only when I touch it

update: a little over 24 hours since i took the photo and the small spot has disappeared. The bigger spot is maybe a third if the size it was. Would herpes disappear that quickly? Especially for a first outbreak?

that does look like herpes, they come in clusters and are VERY painful and usually cleares up with mediction in weeks

meant to say it does NOT look like herpes