Pleaseee I neeed help been depressed.. is this herpes

Sexual health
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i slept with someone and she didn’t tell me she had herpes until the condom snapped. she wasn’t having an outbreak.

i usually get a sore tip (of the penis) after sex with a condom however this has lasted longer than usual. i have no blisters or anything just slightly raised bumps at the tip which is normal after sex.
my balls are irritated but still no sores or pimples. its been nearly 3 weeks

i’ve seen a SHC and they say its not herpes when i think it is my tests (not including herpes though) came back negative. i’m hoping its something else like fungal infection or yeast

and stupidly i thought soap would kill the virus on my penis after sex

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that does not look like herpes what so ever but she should have told you she has it!!! now if you ended up contracting it i would take legal action Against her