PLS PLS help!! I am very anxious? Does this look like herpes?? (Pics included)

I stupidly had unprotected sex around 3 weeks ago now, around 3 days later I developed some bumps around my vagina, they were not painful, just itchy and went away on their own in about 3 days. no pus, liquid, scabbing etc.

about a week later i developed a headache and cold and flu symptoms (could be unrelated??)

now 3 weeks later i found one small scab on my vagina and am now getting small itchy pimple like bumps on my bum cheeks and crack…

im stressing that i could have herpes but am too scared to get a test. i am 20 years old and afraid a positive result will ruin my life and no one will ever love me.

pls help me!! i have attached pictures

hi!
While these pictures are not very big, I don’t think they are herpes. I would get swabbed to be sure.