Hello Angle eyes
I'm so sorry to hear you have just been diagnosed with PMR and at such a young age as well.
You say you have been suffering from years of pain, and it would be most unusual for someone even younger than you are now to be suffering from/diagnosed with PMR, although it is not unheard of.
Were you diagnosed following ESR and CRP blood tests which showed raised markers of inflammation? As there is no test to confirm PMR, the diagnosis is very often made following tests for exclusion of other conditions such as rheumatoid arthritis. Also many people in this country are suffering from Vitamin D deficiency which can also lead to pain in many body areas similar to that of PMR. Specifically, the main areas of pain in PMR is felt around the shoulder and hip girdles, down the front of the thighs and in the lower spine, with many patients being unable to lift their arms at diagnosis - does this sound similar to your experience?
Rest assured that if you have got PMR, it does not mean that you will have it and be on steroids "forever". Some people recover in 18 months to two years, whilst others take a little longer but even then, as long as the steroids are doing their job of controlling the pain you will feel so much better as you reduce the doses. You should in fact be feeling very much better with about 70% relief of your pain within just a few days of taking your initial dose.
The important thing now is not to be in any hurry to reduce the steroids - you will need to stay on the starting dose for a good 2-3 weeks before considering any reduction and then, if you feel much better and blood markers have normalised, you should only reduce in small steps, for instance to 17.5 initiall
We have to learn to help ourselves and give ourselves lots of TLC to allow the steroids to do their job of controlling the inflammation that causes the pain. Many of us have learned to our cost that if we overdo things on a good day, PMR can come back to bite.
Another way of helping ourselves is to watch our diets and reduce our levels of refined carbs which can help to offset the weight gain experienced by some patients. Any weight gain will only be temporary and it always subsides as the steroids are reduced.
Leg pain permitting, it is a good idea to get out for a daily walk, even if you can only manage 5-10 minutes at first. Apart from the exercise being helping to maintain your muscle/bone strength, a walk in the fresh air releases those feel-good endorphins to lift your morale.
Yes, it is a frustrating illness to be diagnosed with but you will soon learn to accept the diagnosis and get back control of your life, feeling reassured that it is a life-changing illness for a while but thankfully it is not life-long or at worst life-threatening.
I do hope some of this helps and that you start to feel much better soon.
MrsO
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