hey!
I noticed first symptoms when the penis head becaome swollen, red and it started stinging. It was a very unpleasurable exprience. It stung for a day and two, urination was also painful. My thought is that the coconut oil penetrated skin barrier and went deep under to the inward layers causing balanitis.
I am 26.
I am not sexually active now.
No, I don’t - my overall skin in other areas is clean and healthy, however I had problems before. My lifestyle was not that great, and the place I live is polluted.
Regarding the cocnut oil, I have been using it for a while as a skin moisturizer all over my body - it was great and skin felt fantastic. I sporadically used it also on penis glans to a great effect but seldomly. As I am cirumcised and my sensations were debatable one day I decided to start moisturizng glans for better effects. It may have been the worst decison, as my skin reacted significantly as you all may see. before that I have never had eny problems with my penis, apart from the circumcision resulting from the short frenulum (suspected but maybe it was BXO all the way from the beginning - more below)
Well, after 1.5 years patches are still there. Blood vessels partially faded, dissolved. This skin evened out in some areas and have ephitalized a bit, and the ivory coloring faded seemingly, but there is still a lot of progress to be made as patches are here, discoloration is present and there are some skin depressions and it is driving me terribly as I think I have developed some kind of fear of abandonment and I don’t want to show it anymore to anyone 
Several urologist said that this is just an allergic reaction, severe, but still allergic to the oil applciation. The healing process might confirm that as it healed, whle LS once going off, stays the same, as they said, however I am still concerned as one of the dermatologist pointed out that these are hypopigmented areas during the onset of BXO and I actually have that condition as I was cimrcumised becasue of the tigh white band on my penis 10 year prior ( I remeber that tight ring. It was a white, very symmetrical ring on my penis that was interpreted by an urologlist as a result of a short frenulum. I remember very much when I wanted to pull the foreskin, and yes, the glans were pulled by the frenulum. That’s why i have undrgone the procedure of removal.
)… this dermatoligst prescribed tacrolimus for one year - i. don;t trust this opinion as for now.
My diagnosis is, the coconut oil in large quantities (lauric acid) penetrated the skin and just burned the glans, therefore STAY THE F***K AWAY from stupid internet recommendations and never use anything “natural” or just be even smarter, never use anything on your penis apart from your lady’s juices. Just use something from the drug store that was effectively tested… or just don’t do it at all.
Maybe you have another view on that Wee, especially regarding the circumcision etc. Maybe you have any urologist online that could take a look?
I was actually thinking about visiting Chris Bunker to get an expert’s opinion.
thanks!