Possible oral to genital herpes?

So ive recently had a red lump on my groin area show up im wondering if is herpes? for some background around 2.5 weeks before it showed up i went to visit my long distance girlfriend, the morning i was leaving i had a cold sore on my lip which i thought was weird as i dont recall ever having one before, later that week my girlfriend got a bunch of cold sores as well as flu like signs.File size is too big. now 2.5 weeks later and we havent seen eachother since as im on a trip out of the country i noticed this red bump on my groin, its stayed the same or slightly shrunk over the last few days, no sign of popping and not painful at all. im planning on getting checked in a few days when i get back home but wanted to get some other opinions as well.File size is too big

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thats just a spot infected follicle probably caused by shaving your pubes