hi everyone, i am currently 18 years old and have had a boyfriend for a year and three months. sex has always been a topic for us and i always have wanted with him but i was too afraid because of pregnancy. for the 13 months of our relationship i wasnt on birth control and i told him i wouldnt have sex until i was on it, so in march i went to the doctors and got the birth control pill ans been taking it to this day. we had sex for the first time a couple of days ago and he does wear a condom and pulls out, but i cant enjoy it because all i do is think about being pregnant. i know the chancces are very low becayse i am ALWAYS on time with my pill and all my friends who are on birth control never had an issue, but the thought of me being pregnant will always be in my head and its really uncomfortable because all i want go do is enjoy being intimate not worry & stress my boyfriend out. am i just overthinking a ton? I am always told that its very unlikely if you are on Birth control, using a condom AND pulling out. but i just need more reassurance....
i use to think like this until I seen for myself how affective birth control actually is. being on bc and wearing a condom is like 100%.
are u sure? everyone tells me its pretty much 100% but i keep convincing myself other wise
it’s because you’re just nervous and worried, but just keep taking ur birth control on time and you’ll be fine