I have what is called life long premature ejaculation. I never remember that i was able to hold my ejaculation more than few seconds. It's too sensitive, and i have visited two doctors already, but non of them were able to help. They advised my with the regular techniques like squeezing the head, go and stop, and one of them advised me to use SSRI. Non of these solutions helped. Recently, i started using numbing creams containing (lidocaine/prillocaine) on the head and the frenulum. And it desensitized my penis and i could hold my ejaculation for long times. But, this isn't a solution. As it has many negative effects like, it's harder to get erect and stay erect since the sensitization is decreased. I believe this is due to my circumcision which occurred when i was a child. I think the doctor cut more than he should. And maybe i have balanitis. I don't think my premature ejaculation is due to anxiety or stress or any other physiological disease. I'm also negative for diabetes, heart problems, cholesterol, ... etc.
I have attached two images showing the tip of my penis, do you think it is normal or am i right about my guess. And if it is due to circumcision, is it treatable?
Thanks.
Here are a list of the the analysis that i did. I’m taking vitamin d supplement ever since but that’s it. And it isn’t helping for both premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction.
I am not a doctor but can give you some suggestion based on what i hear from surrounding and some other doctors. Premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction mainly (more than 95%) caused by masterbation. Damage which is already done can hardly be recovered. But you can certainly improve from current state. You need start exercising (Running and Yoga at least) on daily basis and if masterbating and stop it forever. Running will help you regain some stamina and yoga will help you regain internal power. Thats my suggestion, I am not an expert.
I used to intensively masturbate when i was younger and watch porn for hours. From 12 to 18. But starting from 18 and up it decreased maybe to 2 times a week and sometimes 3 to 4 times a month. I remember i was doing it hard and beat my penis when i was younger because i didn’t know it would affect me badly. I don’t remember if i was lasting longer when i was younger too. Maybe it’s due to masturbation. However, I don’t masturbate that much anymore. If that is the issue, is it treatable? I can’t get into a relationship like this.
I’m 27 by the way. And this issue is making me really depressed as it ruined my last relationship and i don’t feel confident getting into a new relationship at all since I can’t satisfy a girl penetratively.