G'day Nurse Ruth,
Well, your're in for a walk on the wild side (no pun intended!). I am in Cornwall, UK. I was 'done' as an NHS patient in a private hospital, surgeon was a bloody great guy, medical team also bloody great, nursing team also bloody great .... physio - total crap. Absolute crap ! Not fit for purpose. Beware !
If you are an NHS patient and in UK you will get delivered to your home a package, raised toilet seat, crutches, shower seat and a toilet frame - a call to attend a Physio Assessment maybe a month before surgery ( I think) and things will be explained to you. You will need to bring your crutches and the physios will set the right height for you.
I was 'done' late morning, by early afternoon I was doing exercises in bed, by late afternoon was walking on crutches - THEN - the surgeon came in and checked things over and said get in that chair and bend your knee and pull your leg back under the chair. Being stupid,and still half witted from anesthesia I did it .... holy moly, the bloody pain! I was 'done' on 6 Nov 2015 and sent home on 9 Nov - which I gather is standard.
Here is my timeline - 6 Nov surgery; 9 Nov sent home; 19 Nov dressing removed by GP practice nurse; 24 Nov back to hospital for Physio assessment; 29 Dec back to hospital for surgeons review, throw away crutches and drove my car again; 26 January back to work. 29 Feb another surgeons review - Surgeon now doesn't want to see me until 1st anniversay of surgery which will be 1st week Nov 2016.
The only thing I got about exercises was a standard NHS booklet illustrating exercises and during the three days in hospital the physios marked each exercise with frequency of each exercise. Bloody useless. The physio in hospital and intensive - it was OK. To be honest I got more online than I did from NHS - I went onto Youtube - a video of exercises is worth a thousand words.
For 8 weeks before surgery (at my own expense) I went and saw my sports injury therapist and she worked on strengthening my knee and leg before surgery in an attempt to get my leg and knee in best condition as possible pre surgery. Glad I did that. After surgery she worked on the knee too for some weeks, Worked intensively on the incision scar and manipulating the knee joint too. Big help.
Mind you in my view this should have been part of the NHS Rehab plan but wasn't. So if this applies to you and you can afford it go for it.
Living alone ........... hmmmm! Before hand look at the logistics of your home, set your home up for ease and comfort. Have a good solid chair with arms on. You will need this chair when you come home, by the way, a lounge will be too low for you to manage for a while. Your chair should ideally be about 18" high from floor to top of the seat. You'll need something like this to seat in and to do some of your exercises in, especially bending the knee. A tip - get a clean flat cooking tray and place on floor preferably carpeted, sit back in the chair at first, place your foot on it and slide your leg back as far as possible to get your foot under the seat of the chair. As you progress you can move your bum further forward and this will enable you to get your leg even further back, then as you progress even more sit right on the edge of your seat and repeat it, you'll then get your leg back even more. Try it now with the better of your two legs and see how it works.
Stock up your freezer with frozen dinners, if you can do your shopping on line and stock up. Make sure you have more than enough pain relief and DO NOT use it like I did like a pill in the pocket only to be taken when needed. WRONG ! Take it as prescribed 24/7. I have a heart arrythmia and because I'm on Warfarin I can only take limited pain relief, mine of choice is CoCodomol 30/500.
Do your exercises regularly as instructed, don't let up on them at all. Ever ! Always RICE. Don't be in a rush to get off your crutches, use them, take your time, you will find inventive/creative ways of getting around your home - frustrating though it will be.
That said, I never ever did find a way of using both crutches while I cracked open a can of beer and carrying it back to my chair - Lol! Ditto for a mug of tea or coffee for that matter.
You won't have much appetite for a while, I lost quite alot of weight in the first month (bloody well put it back on now though), I was eating half childs portions of food. Thats all I could take.
Get a carry bag of some description to put on your crutches to carry stuff around with you. As I said, get creative. Start practicing now!!
Thats about it which combined with other posts should be a start for you.
May the force be with you.
John