I am over 60 and have lived with an ileostomy for several years, which effectively means that the lower half of my digestive system is effectively turned off, including poop. Over the years I believe that my anus has shrunk due to lack of use, and I have recently learned about prostate massage and orgasms but MOST people say its best to go `internal' ie. through the rectum to get optimal results. For me I can't put anything up there because it is very painful even with lubricants. So I am reaching out to see if anyone has any practical advice or links to articles? As I said most of them advocate internal for the best result, and obviously nobody is posting an article about an obscure combination like I have :) Since I've spent a lot of time searching and not coming up with much I thought I would register in a more medically balanced venue that I hope can provide some suggestions for me. I will say that from what I have learned so far, the external stimulation I have been able to do has been nothing short of amazing. I have felt nothing like this before and it is true what others say about this type of stimulation; `earth-shattering' - which I hope to achieve at some point soon with some help :)
Sorry I can’t help. I do have a couple of questions though. Is the prostate massage orgasm that much more intense than an orgasm from stroking of the penis? If I recall, prostate massage can irritate the prostate, especially if you have prostatitis .