Hi Brenda,
Guess I did leave Jerry's story with lymphoma unfinished. Yes,
he did have the transplant, and fortunately his bonemarrow had not been infected, so he was able to use his own stem cells. It was a long process from the time he was tested/treated/recovered/became an out-patient who had to stay close in order to check in every morning for tests, etc. Finally graduation day when the hosp. kitchen sent up cake & icecream and we were sent home, some 60+ miles away. Took several more months before he began to flourish and make his local oncologist happy! Looking back on it, it was an terrible but exciting adventure with a miraculous ending, wonderful--even fun times--with friends we each made on a patient message board. Jerry never got quite as strong as he had been; became a trail rider rather than a climber, played 9 holes of golf instead of 18, but 8 years later suggested we take dance lessons so we could take advantage of weekly dances in the neighborhood we moved to in 2013. The chronic cough from what we now think may have been un-dx PF put an end to dances when we had to come home after dancing twice at the
halloween party...at the time he thought his breathlessness was due to heart condition, and it was when his cardiologist disagreed that Jerry
was referred to a pulmonologist. I'm having a bit of trouble not giving in
to anger when I think of his pcp who 2 yrs ago gave Jerry a
prescription for, "...idiopathic chronic cough, just like my mother has,"
this doctor and son of a doctor told us. A year later, he said an xray
might be helpful, but he and radiogist said it just showed an old scar in
Jerry's lungs; it took another year and another xray indicated need for
a CT scan I catch myself wanting to ask the pcp how his mother is
doing, but I can't ask yet, as it's not based on a sincere concern, but is
purely sarcastic...and not something I'd be proud of. Besides, I really like this pcp and don't think he was deliberately careless--just not well informed.
Thanks,Brenda--it sure helps calm me just to put in writing how I feel, and calming down helps remove that need to strike out.
I'll let you know how our appnt goes tomorrow. Thanks to you, I'm actually looking forward to it!
~Qua