Hi all I'm in a relationship from almost 19 months now. here things are good we love each other my girlfriend has made it clear that she cannot marry me due to the religious difference. her decision is still the same ans she is or she might have prepared herself for the break up. We see each other daily for an hour or so. we don't spend much time alone so either it will be a bike ride or may be quick snack. Intimacy is like it just don't exist. So in so many months we hardly had sex for like 6 or 7 times. I cant cheat on her but yes I've depreived myself and its just that im sexually frustrated too. I dont want leave her but i dont know how to make it work. my sex life sucks. no future planned. present is somehow going on until i dont demand more attention. i dont know what to do. please help.
Hey buddy
What you have to do is sit down and talk
My I ask what her religious is and what is yours. It must not have been a big deal when you guys started your relationship.
I was in the same position when I got married. I was catholic and she was Lutheran. We ended up getting married in a catholic church. We did not have a full mass just the basic. We had to compromise.
Maybe you can do that if not you just have to move on. It is not good for the both of you.
Take care Ken
i tried talking but it never helped its just make it awkward.
Damon
Sometimes you just have to keep trying
Best of luck…Ken