Relationship anxiety

Mental health
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Hi all I've suffered with anxiety for about 6 years now I can usually manage it relatively ok yet have had 3 episodes where it has over taken where I can't attend work, go out of the house and so on. 

Everything has been going well stable for about 18 months until I've started a new relationship. I find myself completely obsessing that they will leave me, that I am not good enough, that I will end up alone, I always check my phone when I've text them and get stressed out to the point of tears. I feel like I can't leave the house sometimes yet when I'm with them I am fine. 

If I'm honest it's the best relationship I have had, the most attentive and we have loads in common. He knows to some level of my anxiety yet I am terrified if I tell him how bad it is he will leave me and not want the stress. 

We've been together for 6 months and I really feel that I am going to ruin the relationship with my worries. I am 29 years old and have a son so should be concerned about so many other things yet for some reason I am focusing on this.

I take sertraline 50mg a day any advice would be perfect x 

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Anxiety is not a problem. Anxiety is cause by negative thoughts in your mind. You are thinking negativly. You own the mind, you are to use your mind to think what you want. The universe expect you to use your mind the way your want. You have the power to think the thought you want, and reject the thought you do not like. There are people that study the universe like the psychic and pastor. They understand the power of the universe. The power behind the universe is God. You need to see a pastor to assist you. God created you and gave you mind for you to use the way you want. 

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Aliciat

Stop doing yourself down and give yourself a break, you are with someone who is sensitive and attentive enjoy the ride you seem to be on a smooth roadway.

Good Luck with your new relationship

BOB