Sad and overdosed a bit

Last night had too much to drink and came home took some sertraline sominex and blocked nose tablets with paracetamol sad.

Good evening Liz, what was it that made you unhappy. hope you dont mind me asking, regards, George.

hi there lostliz it may be ok but please get in touch with your a &e department just to ensure youve not done any harm at least it will put you mind to rest better to be safe than sorry ! can you post how you get on thank you !

Can't go anywhere as I haven't told anyone. I feel delicate and achy. Been drinking lots of fluid

lostliz at least phone the.a & e that way you can relax all being well im not trying to frighten you i just want to make sure your ok.david !

Liz Hi Hey good that your doing the fluids - at least phoning the a&e will tell you what symptoms to expect when. That'l help the uncertainty.

Pardon for asking, but it is mentioned in this forum a bit about not telling.

ie "I can't go cause I havent told anyone."

I'm from Australia - to me it sounds like you guys feel you can't drop into a hospital without them interfering by telling work or parents / family etc. Am I correct in this?

I have slept well and apart from being a bit groggy I feel ok. I think my husband had an idea. But it's happened so often but not for a year

This was why…… financial worries, the month my dad died as well as

My ex is here from Spain so that tense we get on but he doesn't try and speak English. My middle daughter quite rightly doesn't try with him as he doesn't with her. Finally someone last night who is normally ok with me was off with me without giving me a reason.

No froggy only if you are under age.   But the reason we don't like to go is often they don't take you seriously or just give you a couple of pills and say go away.  Or you will spend many hours on a trollery because they are so busy.   

Why don't you ring 111 Liz and have a chat with them?  Or can you get an emergency appointment with a doctor.  My doctor told me that a sertraline overdose won't kill you but paracetemol overdoses can be nasty and you can get liver problems from them.   I do think you ought to get checked out just in case though.   

Let us know what happens please.  Bev x

I am ok. I didn't take too much but I did feel awful for a few days

RE: friend last night

Is it something doesn't feel right but you can't / are too intimidated to ask the person what's wrong? "What's the reason you're off?"

I'm only just starting to see some pattern with me where some people demonstrate their frustration at an issue, or show frustration but not explain it.

* HOWEVER I think they are frustrated with ME so I get intimidated and don't ask why, which makes them angry at me cause they came to me to talk about it.. they may be simply trying to flag that they are hurting and doing it the wrong way.

That would explain sometimes where I've said "Are you angry at me?" And they get angry because I'm talking about me not them..

Then I got to the stage of stuff them, I won't ask cause I get bitten all the time. The downside to that is what you are getting .. Unanswered questions which cannot be resolved. ..

If so that happens a lot with me and I'm only starting to fight it with my assistant who is a very formal, process driven person, and I don't care if the newspaper at the front door is facing the wrong direction, but she will get emotional about it.

I'm discussing that sort of blockage with the Psych at the moment.

Practical example; I'm in a Technical Library full of manuals some of them need to be secure, however another group of people in my Unit sit outside the back door. Now Safety regulations mean that they MUST have a second access point in case the

first is blocked so the rear door to the Library must be left open till THEY leave (usually). So a process had to be discussed

where we leave the door unlocked. If everyone outside has gone home, then I lock the door, else the last Outsider to leave

has to lock the door, and this hasn't been happening.

(This is a LIBRARY for heavens sakes its not meant to be so complex aaRRG )

Again, this morning my assistant said the second door to the Library "Was left unlocked when I came in this morning" she always makes it sound as if it is an accusation.

** So this time I made a point of commenting "hey, its not my fault".. she acknowledged that and said its frustrating to

someone like her to have stuff undone. **

I've put a small sign sheet on the door (this is the 44th of its type - yep 44 of them) that allows us to register an

unlocked door by date. Something small but adds to the many pieces of paperwork, however the offsider is pleased that they

can do something about the issue. I'll probably put the filled in sheets in a folder and quietly shred them.

I will try to keep this positiveness happening, cause there's no issue there and since its Friday, there is nothing to take home and mull over during the weekend like I normally do. WONDERS will never cease...

I think what I'm trying to do is called having assertiveness, but I'm too intimidated to ask... smile