i hope someone can help ease my mind , a small background is this - when i was with my ex 9 years ago i had an abnormal pap test with low risk hpv . my ex and i didnt last very long and i continued to have normal pap smears at every follow up after . i have been in a monogamous relationship with my current partner since that ex but one silly night a few years ago now i went back to my ex . my current partner knows this and we have worked through it but my relationship is struggling due to my fear of now having hpv again . i had negative std bloods and a normal routine pap test aince but i cant shake the feeling ive caught something . this is hard because i dont want to have sex with my current partner incase i give it to him . to make matters worse im reading that hpv is linked to not only cervical but head and neck cancers also . how do single ladies actually go through with sex if their is zero protection :/ im really needing to talk to someone :(
Well first of all you are doing the right thing. You had the test done and you are free and clear. You said that you talked it over with the new guy and you have worked it out.
Now the best thing you can do if you are sure. Is move on. Do you love this new guy or like him a lot. Do you want to go for word Maybe it time to take it to the next level. Talk with him and take it slow. Maybe you can give him a Christmas present. But you have to play it safe now a days. Use a condom. Have some floor play put it on with your mouth. Some guy’s like that. But don’t do anything you are not ready for.
Take it easy and play it safe. Ken
i would say that if all the test are clear then you are fine. it just sounds like guilt talking.