The other night I had a man over for a one night stand, I was receiving the anal sex and he wore a condom throughout the entire encounter I also gave oral sex for a short time and he came in my mouth which I spit out in a matter of seconds, I have no sores in my mouth either. Although he said he was clean and reassured me that i had nothing to worry about I am still scared to death because I know the only way to know for sure is to get tested but this will be a very long 3 months for me.. honestly I dont know how much longer i can deal with the anxiety... Someone please help me feel better about this.. I am making myself sick...
Don't worry, I'm sure you will be fine as it's a very very low chance that you could get HIV through oral sex. Try and not panic as this happened to me and I couldn't function for about 3 months until I got the all clear
First relax.im glad he wore protection thats a great way to avoid hiv transmisson and othe stis as well. If it helps too if he was circumsized theres a less chance of him having it a study shows circumcision reduces chances of getting hiv by 60% who knows if its true but its reassuring. Also hiv is rare. Try to get the ELISA 4th generation test its more pricey but it can detect after 2 to 4 weeks of exposure though i got mine 4 months after. I was goimg to do the standard 3rd generation but i figured this one was the best. Amd most reliable. If it makes you feel better my ex was bisexual he had unprotected sex with another man who happened to be pretty much a prostitute he had sex for money and the fact that my ex had sex wity him unprotected and also a bottom made me furious. Not to mention they shared needles as well. It didnt make me mad that he had sex with another man it got me mad that he lied to me. He told me it was with protection and he wasnt the bottom. But after i insisted he told me no protection and i remembered one time he did anal sex on me and i hated it it hurt i told him to stop and he didnt. He was too horny to care what hole to stick it in. Cuz we have and i have never had anal before. And when he finished i told him it really hurt and i didnt enjoy it at all. The entire time i felt like i was going to sh** and he is like sorry. And he was like right it does feel like you gotta sh** huh? At first i didnt think nothing of it but now it made sense why he said it. The fact that it was unprotected and needles and promiscuity involved made me angry i even agreed to no protection with him but in the end my results werre negative. So that should be reassuring to you.