Welcome godblessed!
As libralady13 said, you might want to start by reading everyone's journey with this nuisance condition!
For myself, I have just been trying "the contact dermatitis on my eye lids from allergies route" on the advice of my physician. She is looking for "a cause" and bless her as no one else is that I've seen medically. Still twice a day, I wash my eyes with bicarbonate of soda in warm water, about 1/2 a tsp no more in about a 1/2 cup of warm water ( thank you libralady13 for this suggestion as I found the baby shampoo too drying and it may have been axascerbating the problem), I use warm compresses (I just use a warm face cloth followed by light massage in the morning and evening), and use Systane Balance Eye Drops at least 4 times a day (and rub the excess through my eye lashes to clean them of debris during the day too). This helps control the itching from the tiny flakes. For watery eyes, I use allergy eye drops as needed. This also takes away the redness in my eyes. My dr. prescribed an antibiotic allergy drop called Pataday, and you would use only 1 drop per day in each eye. I am about to switch over to over the counter drops to see if it makes a difference now. Alcon has allergy drops as do most eye companies.
Re: the allergy side. I cannot use baby shampoo as mentioned, or eye wipes or lotions as they are too strong and make my lids red. I changed my laundry soap and fabric softener to dye and fragrance fee (it's possible just rubbing your eyes on a pillow case is enough to bring on dermatits, if that's what this is). I changed over ALL of my hair products, soaps, face and body lotions, cosmetics to chemical and fragrance free. I am trying new products. After one week of the washing routine, the allergy eye drops and the change over of personal care products, my eyes are white and clear. My lids are almost totally cleared up except for a small portion on the right eye in the corner. I am wearing for the first time today, concealer, eye liner and shadow and HOPING for no new reoccurences, but who knows! As I am totally nervous that I will have another set back, at night I put on a homeopathic eye drop for conjunctivitis on a cosmetic pad and wipe down my eye lids (especially in the crusty corner) in hopes of preventing bacteria from causing an infection. I am careful to use a different pad for each eye to avoid cross contamination. These drops do not make my lids red so I guess their OK. My dr. does not know that I have added these drops to my preventative routine.
I had eye makeup on for 3 hrs now and yes, my eye lids are now getting a little itchy. I am at home now for the day so will clean them as per above and put in some eye drops, and before I go out tonight, I will try some eye makeup again. Maybe for short spurts I'll be OK. But I will let everyone know as we're all following each other's journey here.
Hope this helps and good luck!
P.S. For swollen eye lids or red eye lids, I like putting on my eye lids, a thin slice of cucumbers, cool to room temperature. I liked the cucumbers better than the wet tea bags, finding the cucumbers more soothing. But that's just me!
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