so i recently discovered i have a septate hymen, theres two holes with a piece of skin seperating them. the thing is im 18 and have had sex before, the first time i did it hurt really bad and i bled a lot. the other times i did it hurt a little bit when the penis entered but would go away. i havent had sex in awhile and recently got into a new relationship, i discovered my hymen while looking at myself and could tell there was 2 holes. one hole is bigger than the other which im assuming was stretched. but i dont want to deal with the pain i still get anymore, what should i do? ive heard theres a surgery you can get done but idk
The 2 holes you saw are the small one ,urethra and the bigger one is your vagina orifice , it’s all normal.
There should be no more hymen because you had sex twice
Regarding your pain use lubrication and extra foreplay , that will relax your genitals.