Dear Lia,
First,
I am so sorry for your suffering and pain.
Herpes Zoster-Shingles is caused by reactivation of the chickenpox virus that lays dormant on your sensory central nervous system until your immune system is stressed.
Getting married counts as a major stressor. Congratulations!
Most people who get Herpes Zoster-Shingles do not have HIV.
You are infectious to individuals who have not yet been infected with the chickenpox virus. This can include pregnant women and their unborn children, to whom it is very dangerous. They can contract chickenpox from the exposed vesicle-blisters until they have completely scabbed over and no longer contain any fluid. This can take up to one month from the beginning of symptoms.
The disease usually starts with an individual having symptoms including headache. fever, chills and sweating, aches and pains, malaise, exhaustion, and fatigue. This is followed by pain in an area called a dermatome, then the rash. The vesicle-blisters occur in waves or crops over a period of five days, then stop.
During this time and the next month in particular, you can experience excruciating pain-burning, lancinating, sometimes itching. Occasionally, when someone is younger, the pain is not as severe as when one is older. In any case, the physician should have prescribed an antiviral for seven days and a strong analgesic (pain killer.)
If it isn't taking care of your pain, please see him today and ask for something stronger.
During the next few weeks, you need to rest and sleep, not engage in sports. The Varicella virus circulates in your entire body, and can make you feel as if you have the flu.
If you keep all the vesicle-blisters covered, you are not infectious, but I would not provide care for any child or person who has never had chickenpox. (Per your vesicle-blisters on your fingers)
I am a Nurse Practitioner in the States.
I have Herpes Zoster-Shingles every three to five weeks for the past twenty years in my right ear and twice in my right eye.
Also, Google the Lysine high-Arginine Low Diet to follow regarding Herpes Zoster-Shingles.
The important thing is to relax, rest, and get better.
Please let me know if you have any questions and how you are doing.
Best wishes
Merry Juliana