So my girlfriend just told me she had a bump swabbed and it tested positive for herpes but I’ve never had an out break or an cold sore of any sort I feel like I ruined her life and I don’t know what to do!
I’ve also been tested many times with results coming back negative so I don’t know how this happened.
Herpes can make sexual intimacy difficult. Be honest and clear with your partner. While STD tests may sometimes provide false negatives, several tests with a negative result are more likely an indicator that you do not in fact have herpes. In situations like these, while difficult to address, it may be worth considering asking your partner if they have been intimate with others.