Someone please help me

I have been dwelling on the fact that i may have herpes.. and right now, im even more convinced.. i checked my vaginal area, everything looked ok, until I pulled the skin all the way down by my vaginal opening.. there is a yellowish looking area of skin. I cant really see it as its so far i cant bend far enough to get a pic nor see it fully clearly. if i have herpes.. how do i tell my boyfriend? we have been together for just about three years.. i dont think he cheated on me, and i certainly have not cheated on him… someone please talk to me, could it be something else or that is the only thing it could be.. i feel so broken right now. i love my boyfriend so much.. and i dont know how this happened. i will try n upload a photo but don’t hold me to it m, ive been trying.

here is the best i could get

here is another idk why i couldnt see it unless the skin is pulled really tight .

how long have you had it for? have you gone to the doctors to get tested?

im not sure how long its been there.. i didnt even know it was there until i stretched my skin really far. just looking at my vagina you cant even see anything.. im here at the doc. but im freaking and shaking..

u should visit your doctors and have a test done it may not be herpes and something else mabe the cause so try not to worry and nothing sayiny anyone cheated herpes can stay in your body for years dormant so it could be from a previous relationship etc or it may be nothing to do with herpes at all

think positively and let us know your results.

I did have the doc do a swab.. she did say it did not look like herpes, but took a swab for my peace of mind.

should i have also asked for a blood test, or a swab will be okay?

get blood too for peace of mind

i should have. but was thinking a swab would be accurate.. damnit. i should have asked for a blood test.

which blood test should i have gotten?

My doc said it doesn’t look like herpes.. but i asked for a swab for peace of mind. if it is, is there things i should be looking out for?

but i will keep you updated with my results when i get them.

i hope your results are neg. Good for for going in so quickly. Please keep us updated on the results. Did she say when they will be in?

I hope it is negative as well… She said about a week, the results will be in. I feel so bad currently.. bc if it is positive.. then that would mean ive exposed my boyfriend to herpes… I love my boyfriend so much.. and I hope i didn’t possibly give him something. something i dont even know i even had or would have gotten it from. i dont want to loose him . *tears

good luck

thank you, if my swab comes back negative, do i still need to get a blood test? should i have my boyfriend be tested? he has had no issues at all..

swab is most accurate

can u update when u find out please