Sore bum

I have been reading about your sore bottom's, and i did think i was the only one, it's driving me crazy, I'm in the bath 3 times a day if not more,

I even thought yesterday that it my be the oranges that i eat,

And it is like nappy rash

Cut out the oranges for a bit. 3 times a day will dry out your skin. Get a spray bottle and sitz with water/salt or water/borax. Not sure where you are but buy some ointment like you would use on a babies sore bottom. Works a treat. Good luck!

Thank you, I'm in the uk, i have stopped eating the oranges, and I'm using sudocream , i think it's all to do with the menopause , got to have a smear test tomorrow, not looking forward to it x

The cream you are using I find the best. With test, get her to use smallest possible insert. If you are tearing really easily tell her how worried you are. I have to get knocked out for them now and they can give you something to gently rub in to ease pain when weeing for the next week. It’s almost barbaric but it is so important. I feel your pain on this. Good luck 😘